Care of the Soul

“The session with Margie has helped me clear an old pattern of dis-empowerment that I had been working on before. Margie holds healing space with a high level of attunement and empathy; she knows exactly the most effective route to take in order for resolution to happen within a relatively short time! I feel so grateful, and I highly recommend Margie’s ‘Care of the Soul’ sessions to anybody who is ready to be free of limiting patterns and step into a fuller and more joyful way of being!! Thank you!!!”   Valeria

“Margie is a woman of integrity and honest care. Supportive, firm and accepting, she has walked alongside me as I’ve tumbled into scary and lost places – her sharing is a gift. A much-valued gift of non-judgement offered with many breathing spaces too. These have allowed me to tentatively ponder possibilities, embrace ideas with excitement; discuss and disagree as and when. Happily we can laugh together too and share the joy of this and that along the way, which brings balance to the whole, puzzling, sometimes torturous, adventure.   Annah

“I see you as a therapeutic coach, but it’s spiritual work, too; you hold that energy, sometimes explicitly, sometimes in the background.”  Lisbet

“I found it really helpful to ponder and look at how my responses to my current situation were strategies I had developed at a young age but no longer served me – it put me in a position of being able to choose whether to hold on to them or create something different.

    Thank you for asking my permission before you asked a question that you knew may challenge me.

    I appreciated the space you gave me to think on the questions/possibilities you put forward. Although you suggested possibilities, I never felt you were telling me how it was – I was free to play with the idea or have an ah-ha moment because of what was triggered.

    I loved that you actually listened and were able to bring things I had said into a context further down the process. At all times I felt the process was mine and as a result was able to take ownership of where I arrived.

    You created a safe environment for me to explore very sensitive areas of my life. Thank you.”  Merilyn

“You challenge my assumptions and open my thinking…Thank you.”  Lisa

 “There were gentle changes; things happened slowly. Two weeks later I was skyping with Mum. It was difficult. There was no video operating so I was able to get out the paper you wrote on and re-read it, and I was screaming inwardly, ‘This is not mine! This is not mine!’ That was helpful.

    Bigger issues have come up since our session; our session may have brought the others to the surface – been a building block to put another on.

    You helped me with making it simple, as simple as a mantra. You gave me ways to be clear about what I’m dealing with. Thank you, Margie.”  Georgina

“I just wanted to thank you for nudging me in the right places yesterday and allowing me to make my own discoveries as we journeyed back in time. I am sure the insights I gained will continue to help me make better choices ‘cause now I can see what I was doing and can create something different for myself.

    I don’t know how it’s going to look, but I’m feeling a lot lighter now and don’t feel responsible for creating, maintaining and protecting a ‘happy family’.”  Isobel

Family Constellations

Since the first workshop, my life has changed on many different levels. Family relationships are happier, I’m calmer and more settled within myself and skin irritations are healed back to perfect. A holistic therapy which will help anyone who experiences it.  IKI

I was attracted to the Family Constellation workshops by the possibility of improving the quality my of relationship with family members. I have participated this year in two Family Constellation workshops facilitated by Margie.

    The question in the first constellation concerned my son and in the second, the question concerned my mother. I was very surprised at how swiftly and gently my questions were resolved, and by the empathy and compassion generated within a group of strangers.

    It is entirely possible that because of this work with Margie I have been able let go of my attachment to my son. It is also possible that through this work I have reduced my feelings of responsibility towards my mother. Both relationships feel healthier for all of us.

    I can also say that an estrangement of 30 years from my older brother ended recently with warmth and honest affection.                                                                                                                               Denise Hill

 Margie creates a safe and welcoming space; I would highly recommend her. She is very talented, kind and caring. I have recently attended two of Margie’s workshops, both have been very powerful and insightful. I had the opportunity to bring an issue and have been enjoying the Ease within my family dynamics ever since.  TFC

I want to take the opportunity to say “Thank you,” for bringing Family Constellations to this area. It is both soul-honouring and miraculous.

The small workshop that I was part of at the Lighting the Way Health Expo has allowed me to let go of the hurt that I was feeling towards the local community, which is a fantastic outcome.  Linda

I recently had the privilege of receiving a one-on-one Family Systemic Constellation session with Margie. I was able to work through my struggle with not feeling good enough. She guided me to a place where I was able to see that it had begun a few generations back, and helped me to let go and I felt so much lighter afterwards.

Since this session I feel as if a glass dome that was blocking me from moving forward has been broken through. Now I’m free to move in any direction.

 It is a very moving and powerful process. I highly recommend Margie; she is a truly gifted facilitator.  TC, Whangarei

Margie’s gift is true and rare. During my one-on-one meetings with Margie, she skillfully pointed to patterns and connections within my family field that I never would have seen, but that immediately resonated with my own inner knowing, viscerally shifting my understanding and opening a way for deep inquiry.   Anne

In the constellation work I did with Margie – mostly online – I loved and found immensely supportive, Margie’s loving, curious and present way to discover together the place in the family system where an aspect of the system went ‘out of order’. Always open to our collective process until we come to the place that wanted to be seen and needed light to be brought to. And then healing can spread from there into the past and the future. Thank you Margie!   Anja

The session with Margie has helped me clear an old pattern of dis-empowerment that I had been working on before. Margie holds healing space with a high level of attunement and empathy; she knows exactly the most effective route to take in order for resolution to happen within a relatively short time! I feel so grateful, and I highly recommend Margie’s ‘Care of the Soul’ (one-to-one Family Constellations) sessions to anybody who is ready to be free of limiting patterns and step into a fuller and more joyful way of being!! Thank you!!!”   Valeria 

Margie is one who listens deeply in order to unpack the life story of our generations in order to welcome the old and the new that is stirring in the soul. She creates a safe place for the expansion of one’s inner knowing through the conscious integration our family woundedness.  For anyone seeking greater self-awareness through healing, Margie is there to hold the open space for you.   Natalie


“It was a very inspiring funeral and I think you are doing fantastic work in helping people to realise they really can have the funeral they want rather than the narrow conventional choices.” Alex

“I’m so very glad we decided to have your help with Raye’s funeral. It was as good as I could possibly have hoped, and you played a pivotal and significant role in that. We did her proud, and in a way that was very much in keeping with her life. It is a testament to your sensitivity and consideration that you were able to play the role you did so effectively without ever having even met Raye. Thank you so very much.” Kate

“Thank you so much for all of your advice and kind words, they truly were a blessing. I used the format to help gather my family members to say some words. I am a bit more of the “entertainer” in my family so it was my impetus that got it together. I wrote a speech from my heart, just like you said, and it flowed out of me perfectly: What I love About My Papa.” Genevieve

“I just wanted to say what a fantastic job you made of organising today… in every way. The service was fantastic – just perfect. I will never view funerals in the same way again – it was just a wonderful tribute to Margaret and reminded us all of her at her best. It was all so appropriate and so dedicated to her – no irrelevant talk – a celebration of her life. Brilliant.” Joanna


“Thank you, Margie; you helped make the day an amazing celebration of Victor’s life. I believe everyone felt comfortable with the tone and the beautiful wording you gave the eulogy. We couldn’t have done such a wonderful job without you. You made the eulogy honest and yet kind. You managed to write something that left us believing we’d written it ourselves. My brother has never spoken out in public like he did and he’s rightly proud of himself. It’s done a lot for his grieving and healing.” Angela


“When my brother-in-law became very fragile… it was wonderful to observe how Margie coped with such gentleness, but great strength and understanding of what was required. Her skill and compassion enabled a very strong-minded old gentleman, with high ideals, but no religious attachment, to end his life comfortably and at peace.” Bibi

“Margie has a deep personal trust in the process of living and dying. She respects the dying person’s needs, and is led by them for timing and intervention. Her blend of practical sense, objectivity, caring, calm presence, and humour, smooth the process for all concerned. Margie shared in the day-to-day process of my Mother dying. Her presence was certainly a huge part of allowing Mum a peaceful transition.” Jo


“Margie is very professional and dedicated; she is totally reliable and takes the time to find out exactly what your requirements are before the event. She is very personable and genuinely creates a reaction of interest in those listening.” David Williams, Head of Goldsmith Management Centre, Letchworth

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